Don’t Let the Nice Guy Syndrome Hold You Back

The dreaded Nice Guy Syndrome has kept men from getting the women they want for far too long. This is an “illness” caught from watching too many television shows and movies that depict men acting in this manner in order to land the women of their dreams. Symptoms of the Nice Guy Syndrome include being too sensitive, taking care of a womans every whim, and letting her make most of the decisions in the relationship. Secondary symptoms include buying expensive gifts for women, and being utterly powerless as far as the relationship goes. Men who have the Nice Guy Syndrome never ask women for a kiss or sex. They rarely ever get any kisses or sex, either. Basically, men with the Nice Guy Syndrome are thoroughly unhappy and watch the women they treat like royalty lose interest in them and take off with more challenging and confident men.

Don’t let yourself catch the terminal version of Nice Guy Syndrome. You CAN be CURED! Your first step is to admit you have this problem. If you’re still reading, you’re most likely ready to follow through with this first step. Following this admission, the next step is to start changing things. Start with these strategies:

* Don’t waste money on expensive dates: It’s not necessary to buy a woman’s attention. You can maintain her interest and not spend a dime on expensive dinners and gifts.

* Don’t constantly take care of her needs first: If you want to have any power in the relationship, you must be able to consider your own needs, while getting the woman to take care of them. Women love men who take charge without dominating.

* Relax: Dating is only uncomfortable if you let it be. Be confident and remain calm when walking up to women. This will make you interesting to them and most likely have you leaving with their phone numbers.

* Just say no: Don’t always be available. This is sometimes the best method in getting a woman’s attention. If you seem to be too busy and aren’t overly eager to go out with her, you will instantly become more interesting. Being too available makes her think she’s in control and can make you do whatever she tells you to do.

* Be unpredictable: One of the worst things men with the Nice Guy Syndrome do is always stick to the general rules of dating. To enjoy dating success, you need to be a bit unpredictable. Jerks and bad boys may not seem the way to go, but they always get their women.

I can speak confidently of how successful these approaches are because I used to also have the Nice Guy Syndrome. Since I have recovered from it and changed my life to include success at dating, I now show other nice guys how they can become more confident and assertive for successful dating. Don’t you want to be cured, too?

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Eros