How to use suspense to attract women

Some guys hear that humour attracts and engages a woman (which it does) and so he will unload his best comedic lines one after the other and if he see's that he's getting a few laughs the barrage of jokes will continue. This is sabotaging your own game and not how to talk to a girl on a seduction level. When her initial attraction dwindles and you're left confused as to why you got nowhere with her even if she (reluctantly) gives you her phone number.

The solution to this is to entice and excite her then use suspense to create attraction and let her do the rest of the work by having her seek your validation and gain more attention from you. So for instance; you make your approach, you say something cocky and funny then say something about yourself which demonstrates higher value (This may be your job, your contacts, somewhere you've been something you've done etc) then once she engages you in conversation because you've sparked her interest this is when you subtely act disinterest in her. You do this by altering your body language so that you very subtely begin to turn your body away from her. You also turn your attention to your environment or something such as an interaction between other people or something else that is going on. Humour her by intermittently turning your attention back to her then giving her another nugget of humour or interest. This will create a lot of attraction seeing as she will be fighting for your attention which in her mind gets her to try to validate herself and seek your approval. She will have already deemed you as being of high value and will appreciate attention you do give her when you make your first phone call, or better yet when she rings you.

Using pauses in your speach before you drop a point of interest or value about yourself or before you tell a joke, then using a pause afterward giving her an opportunity to respond and engage in some conversation and then most importantly pausing after SHE has finished makes her feel unsettled questioning if what she said was good enough to spark your interest (already got her trying to prove herself/questioning if she is worthy of your attention).

You can see how effective this technique is as opposed to being one of those guys who desperately tries to force her attraction by spewing a lot of information about himself and overbearing jokes one after the other with no breather and no opportunity to engage on any real or memberable level. Instead  by doing that all you will achieve is her humouring you or giving her number to "be polite" because she feels sorry for you. Which no doubt will end up in bad results.

So do not be afraid to use suspense to spark attraction.

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