If you’ve always wanted to be able to confidently and successfully talk your way into love, sex and relationships with women, you’ve arrived at the place that will help you do just that. You already know that it takes some finesse to talk your way into a woman’s bedroom. This finesse requires some confidence in the delivery. First impressions with women are everything. There isn’t a guy alive that hasn’t flubbed up a first impression with a woman at some point. There are so many ways to do this, too. Such things as appearing so nervous that it makes you look like you’re up to something, or looking at her chest a bit too long, or saying something really ignorant like “If I said you have a beautiful body would you hold it against me?” can all ruin your chances with a woman.

Typically there are 3 different ways that men use to speak to women. These are:

1. Totally over the top as well as crude.

2. Too politically correct.

3. Confident, cool, and real.

The first 2 will kill any chance you may have of getting this woman interested in you. Focus, instead, on number 3. This is going to get that woman’s attention and keep her interested in wanting to know more about you. The conversation is delivered with confidence and you’re also being your real self.

To see how male to female chats typically work, have a look at the following scenarios. They go from worst to successful.

Scenario 1:

The approach: The man goes up to a lovely woman at a store and says “Hello” in a clearly nervous manner.

Her reaction: She’ll either speak back or walk away because you have frightened her.

End result: You’re totally shot down.

Scenario 2:

The approach: You see a woman you want to speak to so you walk up to her and ask a question.

Her reaction: She offers a reply and a brief interaction begins. In order for this to work, your question needs to be situation appropriate. For example, you can ask her what aisle a certain item is located in or what she’s drinking when in a bar.

End result: Your brief chat leads to getting her phone number. If you decide to call her later, though, be prepared for her to have lost interest and be unwilling to pursue it any further. The chat was too short.

Scenario 3:

The approach: You say “hello” to a woman who catches your eye, ask her a simple question, and continue breaking the ice by saying something amusing.

Her reaction: She laughs and starts to relax. This makes her more willing to chat with you, thus starting a longer and more involved conversation. You’re connecting so well that you don’t notice how time has passed. You’re careful to keep the conversation going by talking of things you’re passionate about, thereby avoiding any uncomfortable silences.

End result: Your air of confidence makes her happy and excited to give you her phone number, hoping to see you again.

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