Using push/pull to create attraction

Naturally we value things more that we worked hard to get. When something comes easy we have an attitude to it "Easy come, easy go" - we don't care. So how does this relate to seducing women and creating attraction?

Women nowadays get effortless attention. When they go out dressed up and looking sexy attention comes their way. You don't often see a hot girl make big efforts to try and seduce a guy, they don't have to. It's because of this that women get bored of not having to work for anything and constantly having their ego's stroked. This is where the push/pull technique comes into play.

Once you've created attraction with her and "pulled" her in by being cocky/funny & interesting. You can intensify that intrigue 10 fold if you "push" her away as effectively as you pulled her in. By "yo-yo'ing" her emotions like this you are getting her to put in a great deal of effort to tryin and "win" you. She may even forget the initial reason why she was attracted to you but she will be overwhelmed by her competitive urge to capture you and make you hers.

The secret to push-pull is to be playful and straddle the line between being serious and only kidding. You do this by telling her much fun you'd have together but then give a reason why it couldn't happy for whatever reason:

"It would be so much fun if we had an activity day togehther"

"Yeh i'd love that"

"It's a shame it cant happen though because you're scared of getting sweaty"

"No i'm not I love being active"

"You think you could keep up with me?"

"I think I could..."

"We'll see, if you're lucky"

There's an example of teasing her playfully to get her to validate herself. You can also use push/pull to have her realise that there are opportunities to be had with you that she wouldn't want to miss out on:

"I'm going to an art expo this weekend, I'm taking a friend... I thought of inviting you but wasn't sure if you were available"

"Why didn't you invite me I would of love to go with you"

"Maybe next time"

As you can see push/pull is a great tool in intensifying attraction

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