Relax and enjoy yourself to attract women

Going out to a club with the mindset that you "must" attract women and get some phone numbers is perhaps not the best mindset to have when it comes to seducting women...

Too often guys stand around in nightclubs and hit on every hot girl they see. What they are unaware of is that other attractive women see this and are instantly put off, even if they had been checking you out before hand. Reason for this is because this comes across as desperate and being desperate repels women like no other.

The problem is, putting up a fassad to try to mask who you really are in order to attract women does not come across as natural and women have a sixth sense about these things and will suss you out. Even if you do get a number it will probably be a fake one or she will flake on you after giving you the run around. Women like to play these games with guys with ego's as it artificially boosts their own ego/sense of worth.

The way to go about it when you are at a club, party or social event. Is to be sociable with everyone there; The club owner, the bar stuff, the DJ, the bouncers and other people there enjoying themselves. This elevates your social status and women are attracted to a guy with high social value like a magnet. You'll soon find yourself being introduced to people, broadening your social circle. Women may even approach you. In time being a fun sociable guy will be ingrained in your personallity, and so you will have grown as a person who can NATURALLY attract women.

It takes more effort mentally to try and look cool and put up a fassad for women while really looking awkward and desperate than it does to just relax, have fun and introduce yourself to hot women and make some friends and contacts that will benefit you in the long run.

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