The first thing I will tell you, is that when it comes to seducing women, it has very little to do with how much money you have, how tall or how good-looking you are.

It is not surprising that men have this misconception about what women want. We are conditioned every day to believe you must look a certain way in order to be considered ‘attractive’ or appealing to the opposite sex. Men on TV and movies are glamorized and made to look taller and more muscular than they are in reality. Take, for instance, Tom Cruise who is 5’4 but made to look as though he is at least 6 foot in all of his movies.

Look around you, at your friends, school-mates, work-mates. Look at who is dating who, and for how long. It becomes clear, then, that not all of your friends are tall, model-esque, rich guys. I’m also willing to bet that at least some of them have steady girlfriends who are not all ugly. So then we must conclude that women are much more likely to be attracted to a man for his personality and other assets than for his looks, and therefore, seducing women becomes much easier by this logic.

Look around you next time you are in public. I’m sure there have been some occasions where you have seen gorgeous women with mediocre looking men and were convinced “He must be rich! He must be huge!” or wondered what was wrong with you that you can’t seduce women like that. In reality, these things have no real ‘staying’ power with a woman, and no bearing on who she picks for a mate. So how do these average Joes’ go about seducing women of such a high calibre?
There are so many ways, in fact there are too many to list. Humour is a fool-proof way to seduce women and get a woman to open up to you and enjoy your company. Every woman loves a man who can make her laugh, and it establishes common ground between two people, as well.

The biggest attraction killer of all is a passive, or self-effacing man. Never make derogatory comments about yourself that aren’t light-hearted and obviously a joke. The same goes for being overly passive. If a decision needs to be made in a particular situation, come up with a viable decision, and don’t just look at the woman and expect her to make up both of your minds. Women like to be led a little bit, so take on your manly role and take charge! Otherwise, you risk coming off as a wimp, and that is a huge no-no to seducing women.

Step up, take charge and be more assertive. If you do not feel comfortable or you’re convinced that one day some girl will like you for being a shy guy who doesn’t like to make too many decisions, you’re wrong! You might as well walk around with a shirt that says “doormat” on it and watch your friends as they all slowly become paired up without you! Assertiveness: The key to seduce women!

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